Triple A baby! Oh yeah, and while generally a triple A rating carries some prestige todays topic while prestigious in my perspective, is potentially emotional for some. Because I am drawn today to write about some topics that may trigger an emotional response in a few readers. I am drawn to talk about estrangement and the use of the tactic of “disowning”. These topics both revolve around the truth and our perception of it. Of the power we choose to keep or to give away to others regardless of whether or not said other is in fact deserving of it or not.
The impact of perpetual victimhood is truly one held upon ones own self. When we seek to pass our power away to others and blame them as the reason and source cause of our suffering on some level we in effect deny ourselves the ability to move beyond the suffering and in so doing actually choose to remain in a weakened state. We are given opportunities in this living to truly grow in ways our wildest dreams and then some can support. Why deny that and force the lesson back around in louder and more obtuse manners? Who wants that? Well not me, that’s for sure!
For some, this can mean an escalation and intensifying of suffering until it eventually becomes so great we are forced to sink or swim as it were. An already sinking ship can indeed be brought back afloat by the power of positive intention coupled with a deep remembrance of the beautiful soul we all are. This can alchemize our pain into miracles and provide the space for a deep recognition and respect of the effect that the choices we make may have upon our eternal self. Which in my opinion is the only self really worth paying attention to. Mix that up with a healthy respect for the worldly experience we are all and each one of us engaged in and you have, tah-dah, transmutation.
I have witnessed in my living that the individuals whom seemingly with the ease of blissful ignorance(discernment not judgement folks chill!) choose the more limited experience of this path seem to feel as though if they only garner an army of supporters that this will somehow shift circumstance to reflect the sought after conclusion and thus the illusion of the support that is in essence at the root of each and every single one of these type situations. Folks that act in this manner can indeed be bitter sources of pain but at the core of their hearts is a wounded child that went unheard and unloved often for decades. So truly sad.
As one can expect, when this fails to produce the intended result there is often a period of rebellion on some level. Where the individual being the intended target for this type of ill will, has if they are truly making an effort to come from their heart and a place of compassion and empathy been in essence vindicated by the purity of the intention they hold and held even when other options were easily and readily available. The other individual then comes to taste the true level of the illusion which they had so vigorously attempted to foist upon the shoulders of another in foolish arrogance to it’s true cost of the painful vs the plentiful and pleasant and ever more graceful potential growth of all involved.
A house of cards built in a hurricane cannot withstand the wind, it will crumble as it inevitably is called to. This living is not here for us to suffer through for eternity! Like whoa dude! What? No way! But yes way. Indeed Yes Way.
Suffering is bitter AF after all! We all know it and those of us who truly take the time and make the effort to grow in our personal, spiritual and eternal essence are deeply aware of this. Because you see, once you start to put that effort in you realize the power of your own mind and the ability you hold to switch focus and to not react externally while at the same and vitally important time respecting the emotions fueling the potential to react. Once you have done this even one time you can know the effects of true power. You come to comprehend that we are all connected and that which we do to another we in effect do to ourselves even if the result of this may be long delayed and difficult to understand the connection to in some instances.
Power is not sourced from ourselves it is delivered to us upon the platter of our intentions and approach from Heavenly Father who is in purity of essence and vibration, Love. The divine is Love. It’s simple and complex. One does not come to hold power through irresponsible actions taken without regard to their fellow man and if one does, then it is worldly and fleeting and simply another layer of illusion to be broken through on the journey to the return to remembrance. In other words it makes it harder.
I can attest to the fact that many times in my own life I have faced alone, great and overwhelming odds stacked against me and yet each and every single instance that I have held true to the calling of my heart. I have been protected. I have still had to go through the landmines of my mind. In its seeking the validity or not of hurtful intentions of others presented as my own and yet I have always held true to the fact that I know my own heart and I have been tested and I know what it holds and it isn’t weakness but rather a choice to do better and be better then that which I have so frequently seen reflected in both the values and worldly approaches and limited perspectives chosen by some who walk this earth today.
If you feel this speaks to you on some level as you may have been engaged in a similar situation then take heart my dear one, for no storm lasts forever and the longer you are able to hold your own integrity of thought, word and deed no matter what anyone else may think or say but rather to simply do it for you which is in essence of true nature doing it for the greater good, that you will and are protected and you must hold faith in that fact. (I love me a good run on sentence at times hehe) Feel it in your core and draw from that precious and sacred place the love you need to carry on walking such a path.
You’re thought or lack thereof and the intention you hold towards another is what energy you choose to reflect to the world and what we reflect to the world ends up sitting in front of us inevitably in one form or another. If you choose honesty and authenticity over the illusory ease of fakery and deception then you save the world much pain and sorrow. In allowing yourself to be who you authentically are you are allowing healing and growth and love. For any treasure gained upon the path of illusion quickly turns to dust when the need for what truly matters is realized. Some of us wait until our literal death beds to get this far. Others of us are stubborn enough to hold out until after we have passed and find ourselves surrounded by the remembrance that love is real and tangible.
May we each allow love to enter our hearts and in doing so allow for the birth of compassion and healing on a global level. These days are but mirrors for us all. We see the results of inauthenticity. We see the results of a life lived without compassion or empathy. We can see this anytime we choose to look up beyond our own singular perspective and look larger then that also and witness the state of the world on so many levels both joyful and sorrowful in these days.
When we see the conflicts and the violence and the starving and the suffering this type of illusory living has born into this world. We should be called to do better and to be better. To realize and respect that all life is a gift and each time we choose to act in manners un-supporting of the gift of life and living that we restrict our own ability to live a life of true joy ourselves.
For it is after all a fool who laughs at making their world a little colder after all.
Oh and since I talked about pain and suffering so much today I learnt a handy dandy new technique to assist in shifting oneself out of an emotional reaction. Are you ready for the hippy dippy? Because here it comes baby!!! Oh yeah.. My fave! So a technique that stimulates the spleen which is a center for emotional processing can be at the time of intense emotional engagement and before you waste all yo’ precious energy on a reaction whether or not you percieve it as being justified.. Hehe Of course I had to add that.. Say these tones and feel the vibration they create resonate within your physical body. Nope not abracadabra so stop right there smarty pants.
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These tones will serve to anchor you back towards your body vs flying off the handle and into space. Feel them resonate as you speak them and focus on the vibration of the tone. Even if it doesn’t work for you like a hot damn, you can still pat yourself on the back and know you deserve it because…….. you practiced a pause my dear one! That pause contains some real power. Now the next step would be to come back to your heart and allow as opposed to trying to control regardless of whether you percieve the control as being valid and justified or not. Feel that energy you didn’t waste and be proud of yourself for your focus! You did it! You wont always manage to but when you do manage to then take the time to celebrate that victory because it can be very difficult at times to maintain a pause in the face of certain situations.
It becomes easier once we see our own true value for the treasure it truly is. You know who you are. You know your worth. You know your heart. You know your dreams and your hopes and your treasures even those not yet found but sensed. You know more then “they” ever could or ever will about you. Heck, you’re the expert in you and rightfully so. Rock that doctorate all the way to the piggybank of energetic bliss and miracles.
I love you all
The Every Moment Mystic 